“In order to escape accountability for his crimes, the perpetrator does everything in his power to promote forgetting. Secrecy and silence are the perpetrator’s first line of defense. If secrecy fails, the perpetrator attacks the credibility of his victim. If he cannot silence her absolutely, he tries to make sure that no one listens. To this end, he marshals an impressive array of arguments, from the most blatant denial to the most sophisticated and elegant rationalization.
After every atrocity one can expect to hear the same predictable apologies: "it never happened; the victim lies; the victim exaggerates; the victim brought it upon herself; and in any case it is time to forget the past and move on." The more powerful the perpetrator, the greater is his prerogative to name and define reality, and the more completely his arguments prevail.”
Judith Lewis Herman, Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror
Sunday, November 19, 2017
SEXUAL HARASSER
It's out now with more coming. The deluge of women and men who we sexually abused and assaulted. What’s triggering to me is the pushback saying: she/he is crazy, they dondrigs, they’re lying, I don’t remember, they’re exaggerating. Yes heard it all before. Lately if an accused person says this I’m tempted to take it as an admission of guilt.
How interesting that YWL is a Right Winger - the party of Roy Moore and Donald Trump. YWL (I have a verified chat with him that proves this) once told me he likes very young girls with big breasts. EEEWWWW. And like Trump he attacks and abuses any of his accusers.
If you ask him YWL will say he took his accusers to court (NOPE. Zero proof or documentation of any court issues). He and his wife lied to a police detective friend of theirs about me. This detective harassed me quietly (off the books so to speak) and found out a very different and verifiable story. OOPS!! Did YWL ask the harassment of me be "off book" so he wouldn't get arrested when found he LIED? Oh and there's the Cease & Desist I filed on him...
He'll tell you the women he's harassed are ugly, liars, fat, making it up, obsessed with him. Do all these creeps say the same thing? Sure sounds like it.
Oh yes and there's that matter of his favorite Madam - Julie Moya - getting busted just after all the evidence about YWLwas turned over to NYPD Computer Crimes? Crap his pants much?
This man admitted - in verified by NYPD computer chats - that he looked at "every woman like they're just a hole." Yet on his blog makes sweeping statements about morality.
NERVOUS YET?
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